Self-Confidence and Finding Love
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach , writes… …
Life Coaching for people with confidence or self-esteem problems is extremely helpful in addressing this next question. Women seem to be plagued mostly from self-esteem, sense of abandonment and worthiness problems. Relationship Advice for Women is one way to solve this problem in life coaching. Anita asks: “Are some people just meant to be alone”? Anita, since you responded to our survey about love and the Law of Attraction, I’m going to assume you have been considering creating love for yourself. There are many who choose to stay away from serious relationships. And that need not be the situation for a person who has stopped because they have continuously been unsuccessful. Not a thing is wrong with wanting to be without a serious relationship. Life can be fulfilled and wonderful with any choice you end up with.
As long as you realize you’re deciding that rather than giving up out of frustration that you have not met the relationship of your dreams. You can acquire everything in a relationship and in your life.
If you could view yourself from the perspective of Source or your Inner Being, or Higher Self, you would see a beautiful, magnificent, illuminated, connected consciousness. Then life starts to occur around us. Our well-meaning parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to guide us, tell us from birth what to watch out for, warn us, caution us, and attempt to protect us, effectively having us adhere to their fears and insecurities instead of tuning in to our personal guidance. OK, I’ll give you as brand new children we do need support. Fine. But soon after they learn to eat by themselves, self-awareness needs to be part of the training for the small children.
Well-meaning parents desire to do the right thing so they teach, caution, admonish, and instil fear in young ones to make them behave. This only underscores a level of insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets instilled at an early age.
Brain research now tells us that before the age of 7, we’re so open and available to receive, we have no filtering ability at all. We go around in a kind of hypnagogic trance and become impressed with whatever happens to enter our life experience. It is no wonder we have deeply ingrained, although misguided, beliefs about an imperfect nature. By the time we are 6 years old, we’ve heard the word “NO” about 60,000 times. Watch out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, don’t drop that. The recurring communication seems to be you’re unworthy, you cannot believe in yourself, you do not know what you are doing, and so on.
Our parents and elders were certainly well-meaning. They simply intended for our well-being. But you can see how easily we have been trained away from our inherent greatness and brilliance.
I suggest that you go easy with yourself and let yourself have a chance. First off, it’s not your fault. It is not even the fault of your parents. They were programmed that way as well. You can stop this prevalence of lower self-esteem on yourself and everyone you know. You deserve to have everything your heart desires.
Do your very best to lavish yourself appreciation and self-acceptance. Adhere to yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The truth is, the Universe adores, Spirit adores you, and your Inner Being adores you. Why? Because you ARE adorable. And that IS the reality!
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