Is This Really Happening?

Sunday, September 20th, 2009 at 4:56 pm

Does your partner work late? Are there multiple company functions? Are they going out with their “friends” more than normal? These signs could mean your partner is doing more than working, they are cheating.

Some Common Signs of Cheating

Lose something green in your wallet? Something is probabley going on if you notice that they don’t let you see bills, locks them in files, shreds them, or tells you the amount to be paid on them. Does their attitude change? They won’t want to spend time with the family, and money begins to be more important.

You begin to feel like you’re being avoided. They become annoyed with your kids, and their job. They become defensive when you ask them about affairs, and they seem more secretive about things, and start to become lazy. They have different things going on during the day, and they leave gift type items lying around. They begin to become protective of items like their cell phone, and PDA. They won’t want you to touch these items, because there could be unknown numbers or photos in them. They may start coming home late, and smelling like alcohol.

More signs of cheating include picking fights, stomping out of the house, not wanting to shop with you, visit your family alone and “forgetting” to wear their wedding ring. They begin to care about how they look, and they smell different than your use to. They work long hours; work on weekends or days off. They don’t answer their phone when you call, ever. They are on the phone more then normal, and they get messages long after you have gone to bed.

The partner may start to accuse you of cheating. Your partner may be less interested in sex. They may be figuring out your schedule constantly, so they can have their affair work out.

You need to listen to your head, and not your heart. This could end badly, and painfully for you if you don’t follow your feelings.

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