How Do You Know If Your Spouse Is Cheating On You?

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009 at 6:27 am

Are you wondering is your spouse cheating on you? Usually if your suspicions are correct and they are having an affair, your spouse will be behaving differently in the following ways.

Less affection – this is an obvious sign to look out for. As soon as you notice a significant change in the amount of affection and love your spouse shows you, you can start to be concerned that a third party has entered the scene. If you feel the closeness disappearing for no reason you may have cause for concern.

Fewer hugs and kisses, reduced interest in the bedroom department are all signs that their mind may be somewhere else. A lower tolerance of you will also point to their frustration at being with you rather than their new love. Their guilt and frustration may also lead to more arguments, less conversation and a general intolerance of you.

Pride in appearance - if you notice your spouse changes the way they dress, of get themselves a new hairstyle, wear more perfume or aftershave, or take more showers, again you may have some cause for concern. If suddenly they start to dress to impress, it is most probably because they are indeed trying to impress someone they have met or would like to get to know better. Be concerned, especially if their affection towards you changes as well.

At home less - if they are suddenly finding reasons to go out more, even for just short trips, you can start to worry, particularly if they are also guilty of the characteristics above! Finding reasons not to be at home, means there is obviously somewhere else they would rather be! Where do you think that may be?

Once your suspicions are affirmed, your next step has to be to actually prove it! That can be easier said than done, and if you are not extremely careful, your detective work could end in disaster!

Learn more about catching a cheating spouse here!