One of the easiest ways to give flirtatious signals to a woman is by way of subtle touching. A few lucky men just have that “Don Juan” quality with girls, and they seem to cause women to fall in love with them no matter what they say or do. But the majority guys end up striking out at the bar, or completely miss countless opportunities for a hot night of romance and sex, because they are shy or don’t know how to use affectionate touching techniques.

Girls like confident men, and flirty touching takes some confidence and knowing what moves to make. And, if you are a married man who’s accustomed to the occasional arguments (you know the fights that you don’t even know how they got started in the first place!), then you’ll be eager to know how touching your wife the right way can easily defuse things and bring you a lot of peace! Amazingly, our bodies [increase levels of endorphins when touched in a pleasant way and can make us feel euphoric. Here are some great tips on how to properly touch a woman so you can feel more comfortable flirting (or getting her to relax!)

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Your first move:

When meeting a sexy girl for the first time, you’ll want to communicate clearly when touching her so as not to appear too bashful, or end up on her “guy-friend” list. Make it obvious to her that you like her, without being abrupt or too forward with your body language, especially in the first 15 minutes or so. For example, a typical flirty way to get closer after a few moments of great conversation is to softly brush her arm with yours while reaching for the bar. Following a few laughs and maybe a second drink, use a short funny line or tid-bit of conversation while leaning in to tell her more closely in her ear, then ease back again. A great way to begin flirting with your wife or girl friend is to slowly stroll behind her and gently caress her lower hip and back while letting out a subtle moan. Girls love it when guys flirt in a way that is “cute” and warm-hearted.

The next step:

Provided conversation is going great till this point, it’s a perfect time to learn if she’s into you, so take a chance and move things along. Maybe so far she’s been cool with some casual brushing against one another so far, then it’s a safe bet she’s enjoying the closeness. Go ahead and purposefully touch her in some way to be certain, such as placing your hand on her hand or arm. If you feel that your intentional flirting is met with a bit of a cold shoulder, what did you really lose? – Distract yourself to another gathering, and start over on the next sexy girl that catches your attention, while the night is still young. If your touch is met with a smile, smile back to signal you are really glad you’re with her. Now you’re really signaling your affections to her, and she’s most likely doing her best not to openly swoon at your touching!. Keep the touch gentle and flirty – don’t be too “grabby” or smothering at all during this phase.

Take charge:

Chances are you are really hitting it off, laughing a lot, so go ahead and make a move in some other directions. An obvious welcoming sign by her is the classic laugh while she casually slaps her hands on your legs, or dropping her head into your chest or shoulder. It’s surely a perfect moment now to be more playful, perhaps softly caressing her back or neck, and joyfully putting your arm around her during laughter. Massaging her shoulders is a wonderful way to cut through any remaining “tension”, and show that you are really digging her company. If she says something like, “oh, that’s so good”, you’re definitely on your what way to achieving first base, or even more, tonight. The bottom line is to make her feel great the most important person to you at that moment], and you’ll be loving how she makes you feel too.

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First Kiss:

She’s more ready than you may realize at this point, so it’s not a huge step if you’ve really been connecting up till this point. [TouchCaress] her hair or face, and look into her eyes with the intention that you want to kiss her. A playful smile or laugh from her, and then a slight pause of expression as you both look at each other for a just a moment – this is your chance to lean forward for the first kiss. Make it a soft one, especially if you are in public. She may be react back with some welcoming force and lust, and if so, go for it. But your best bet is to keep it gentle and not involve tongue at first.

If this is your first encounter with this girl, you’ve definitely got her phone # at least, or maybe the evening will get even hotter for you.. Using these flirty tips with your wife or girlfriend? … Then you’re already on your way to a sexy night of lust her!

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