Bad Ways To Try To Get Your Ex To Fall In Love With You Again!

Saturday, August 29th, 2009 at 9:24 am

Remember The Old Song, 50 Ways To Lose Your Lover?

To put an old song title another way, there are 50 ways (or more) to lose your lover. Even though the goal you had for the relationship was one that would last forever, sometimes things fall apart. When a relationship that was supposed to last falls apart instead, that’s when you really need to figure out ways to get your ex to fall in love with you again.

If you feel the relationship is too important to just give up on it, and regret it having come to an end, there are ways to try to get your ex to love you again. If it’s important to you, you’ll regret not trying, so go for it! Getting your ex back takes a lot of work and is far from certain to succeed, but remain confident and have a positive attitude and that will take you a long way.

Bear in mind, however, there are some things that you can do that will totally mess things up. Whatever you do, avoid the following strategies!

Bad ‘Get Your Ex Back’ Strategy #1: Shrines On The Web

Okay, so you’ve decided you can use the internet to make an online shrine to your love. It’s a good way to show your ex and the rest of the world just how much you care. Log on to every social network site you can and devote pages and pages to your ex. After all, you really want your ex (and everyone else) to know just how exceedingly desperate you are to have them back in your life.

You figure that if nothing else, it ought to at least generate some sympathy for your problem, right? Not likely! This ploy is quite likely to backfire, generating sympathy for your ex instead of you, and causing them to distance themself even more from you. Most definitely, this is NOT a good way to get your ex to fall in love with you again. It’s more likely to draw unpleasant attention to yourself instead, maybe even from authorities who frown on what might be considered harassment.

Bad Get Your Ex Back Strategy #2: Give Them A Call

Call your ex. Call them again. Call them constantly, every chance you get. You figure how are they going to know you care if you don’t keep calling and tell them so, right? Bad idea once again!!!!

They ended the relationship, remember? Calling your ex over and over only lets them know you aren’t letting go. For someone who does want to let go, it’s highly annoying. This strategy will not work if you want to get your ex to fall in love with you again. It’s more likely they will start making use of Caller ID to avoid you, or even get their phone number changed.

Bad ‘Get Your Ex Back’ Strategy #3: A Plethora Of Visits

Perhaps you figure it’s a super idea to drop-in and see your ex every chance you get. In reality, trying to go see your ex all the time is a really bad way to get your ex to fall in love with you again. A restraining order is a likely result of this bad strategy, because a very mad ex wants to keep you as far away from them as possible.

No matter how badly you want to be close to your ex, constantly dropping in on them is a world-class bad idea. Being pushy isn’t going to get your ex to fall in love with you again no matter how much your broken heart hurts. They wouldn’t have broken up with you in the first place if the didn’t feel like they needed to be away from you. If you force yourself on them, it’s just going to make them back further and further away from you.

Winning Your Ex Back

Yes, there really are ways to get your ex to fall in love with you again. Just be sure to use positive methods, and not strategies like those above that will just fracture the relationship even more. Take time to step back and assess the situation, and consider what might really work to get your ex to fall in love with you again.